From your description PhilB, I'd say that the sender you have that remains open circuit until the engine gets too hot is intended specifically to trigger your high temperature alarm, i.e., there's not a problem until the engine gets too hot. Whereas the other senders you say do not remain open circuit, but vary their resistance with temperature are intended to drive a meter that shows engine temperature throughout its range. Quite why you have both types of sender, I do not know except that they should not be confused one for the other as that would result in misleading information being displayed or heard. As you and I both have the same panels (no gauges) then the high temperature sender you need to use is the one that remains open circuit until the engine is hotter than it should be, and at which point a circuit is made and, if your panel is anything like mine, you get a very feeble alarm which can barely be heard.