Thanks for everyone's quick replies. Yes, I'm in the US and the DZR are harder to get (as are the Trudesign non-metallic option). The only good, readily available, options here in the states are Grocko bronze or the Forespar Marelon fittings. I'd consider the Marelon (as I did on my old Dehler Optimo 101 when I refitted her years ago), but they are bulky and will make the fit a lot harder. From all the responses and additional research, I'm convinced the way to go at this point is replacing the through hulls with Grocko bronze so they are all similar metal and compatible. The Grocko's are well made, and the larger sized valves (1 1/2" and up) come with Zerk fittings so you can lubricate on regular basis. Was hoping to avoid replacing the through hulls, but now that I'm this far it would be foolish to stop half way.
One other question, has anyone had any issues removing the 1 1/2" valves at the bottom of the holding tank. One of those are seized too, but I'm fearing I may mess up the plastic tank while trying to remove that valve, and then I'm REALLY in for a world of hurt.