Yngmar, the valve can give you mixed water at a higher temperature of 85º but can admit water at 95⁰C. In any case I think that MagicalArmchair was thinking of showering the children, not cooking them. So 38⁰C will be perfect.
MagicalArmchair, my first approach to the problem was installing a regular mixing valve, like the one you have seen in SVB, but cheaper
https://a.aliexpress.com/_EvGQ5mjAt the beginning I was very happy because if the temperature of the calorifier is around 80⁰C then you multiply the amount of warm water.
The problem is when the water of the calorifier is not at that temperature but lower, imagine that you are sailing or anchored and you turned the engine off a few hours ago, then the regular mixing valve will keep the same ratio of hot/cold water so the mixing water will be lower than the desired temperature and you will need to access the valve (usually is not easy) and change the ratio.
So last week, when I already had the regular mixed valve installed, I realised this problem so I ordered the thermostatic valve, which I have just received. I pretend to install it this weekend.