I've shortened the threaded part to as short as I could while still being able to thread on the valve (with the handle removed). Careful when doing this - also have to leave enough room for the handle to swing once installed
and space to get to the screw that holds the handle in place.
The fibre reinforced nylon is really quite strong - feel free to test one to breaking load if you got a spare and report back, I'd be curious (breaking load at the hose barb end)! This did concern me a bit, so I made sure the hose has a free run and enough swing room to not apply any force if the engine moves a bunch in case of a collision on the saildrive leg. Not really worried about engine vibration. I wouldn't recommend doing a tarzan swing off the hose, but then I wouldn't recommend that with a metal fitting either, given that my old one (Volvo original, presumably) snapped off flush with the gearbox during removal
If you're really concerned, you could make up a load bearing collar to strengthen it, but it would be a pretty difficult custom job to fit the uneven shape of the gearbox, and there's only so much space it could rest on. I think if you made a split one with a load bearing collar rotating on a fixed sleeve that sits on the uneven gearbox and presents a straight surface to the collar, it might be possible, but as I said, lot of work!