Ouch! That's an incredible amount of upwards force, almost all of which is borne by the rubber bushing on the rear of the saildrive, and from there transferred to the steel mounting ring around the rubber diaphragm and the bolts holding it. None of the parts are designed to bear these loads and on a larger boat it would likely have torn the saildrive out of the mounting frame.
Check the rubber bushing for cracks, bursts and permanent deformation as well as the metal ring and bolts. It would probably be prudent to remove the saildrive to assess the bolts and the threads in the glassed in mounting frame aren't damaged.
The crankshaft seal could only be damaged if the lower bolts connecting the saildrive to the engine have sheared, which you should check for. The clear oil on the diaphragm may be from the input shaft on the gearbox, or less likely from the seal between lower leg and gearbox (although that part would be in compression and likely could bear the load).
Certainly not a common occurrence unless the lifting crew is really terrible. Last time we lifted (in Portugal), they had a guy in a dinghy squeeze into the Travelift bay alongside us and position and check the slings for exactly that sort of thing.
What does your insurance say about this?