The fairleads are really decorative for most Bavaria owners.. They really serve little practical purpose on the Bavarias with aluminium toe rails. I can't comment on some of the older models.
If you want to rip off your fairleads, do what many skippers do, take the line from the cleat, forward to the bow fairlead and then back to the dock cleat. This will double the force on the fairlead!!!
The fairlead positions are designed for the mooring situation you have in the Baltic where bows to mooring is common. A line can go from the cleat, through the fairlead and forward to the dock without a big angle to increase the forces, in fact the forces on the fairlead are relatively minor in this situation.
In the 10 years we have owned our Bavaria 38 (2010 model) we have run the docking lines across the aluminium toe rails and can't see any sign of wear. In picking up lazy lines in the Med, I do run through the fairleads but tie to the cleat on the opposite side to reduce any forces on the fairleads. You can't open your anchor locker if you do this, but so what.
If you are worried about wake or wave action snatching the lines use snubbers. In boats up to about 44 ft, the rubber, double ended dildo type seem to work well. In the larger boats you may need the squeaky and rusty spring type. In the Med we often put our stern lines on the aft winches rather then the cleats. The original Bavaria winches, we felt, were too small for the hadsail, so we moved them to the aft position to be used with our asymmetric and had new, larger winches installed for the headsail. This made the stern lines more adjustable and the winches are more solidly attached to the boat than any cleat or fairlead.
This issue is not just a Bavaria issue. A few years ago, after a storm, a diver from the boat next to us in Vathy on the Methoni peninsula picked up 6 fairleads and 2 cleats from the bottom of the harbour. They were from an assortment of charter boats.
So basically, don't use fairleads unless the load is not redirected much through the fairlead, use snubbers if anything other than calm conditions are expected, and use your winches as strong points in extreme weather.
Craig
"Shirley Valentine"
Gold Coast
Australia