We fitted a remote control in the cockpit of our Bav 38. Our windlass, a Quick windlass corroded badly, broke and stripped the planetary gear. When we purchased a replacement windlass, it came with a relay for a cockpit remote control. Unfortunately we are now in Australia. You may find someone else that has had a similar issue to us and can supply the parts cheaply. We can therefore operate the anchor from the bow or cockpit.
The remote control from the cockpit was hardly used in the Med where I sailed with my wife. One of us on the bow with the anchor controls and one in the cockpit on the helm. I strongly suggest that you need to go to the bow to set up the anchor so that the chain does not pile back into the locker. Also, the person on the bow has a better view of the neighbouring anchor chains ( no parallax error) and can control the drop better. In strong winds you will need to release the clutch on the windlass and free-fall the chain as you reverse. This can only be done from the Bow.
The only times I used the cockpit controls was when I was single-handing a Med Moor. The cockpit control did not need constant pressure on the switch to drop the anchor so I would set up for a 80m drop, reverse the boat, lasso the bars on the quay with the stern lines, then stop the anchor chain from going out further. I would then take up the anchor chain until correct tension obtained.
Unless you are intending to single hand sail, I would not worry about the cockpit controls.
Craig
"Shirley Valentine"
Gold Coast
Australia