I'm not sure if I understand your problem completely but I can advise that a common problem with QL calorifiers is that the heat exchanger in them that heats the water using the engine coolant rusts through or cracks.
This happened to me about 18 months after we took delivery of our boat. When the boat's water pump is turned on, fresh water from the tank goes through the hole in the heat-exchanger and pressurises the engine coolant. The coolant then overflows from the plastic header tank into the engine bilge. It doesn't matter whether the engine is on or not. If you have your fresh water pump turned on, engine coolant will come out into your bilge.
We were in Turkey at the time and could not get a QL replacement. We got a "Quick" brand that has worked well since. ( touch wood). Check the dimensions before you change your calorifier. The Quick 18 litre tank has the same external dimensions as the 20 litre QL make.
If you get a new system, I would recommend that you consider the size of the electrical element used for heating the water from mains power if you have a generator on board. We changed our 1200w element for a 500w element. We have a 1kv generator that we use to charge the batteries ( about 480w maximum) and heat the water. ( 500w). The generator charges the batteries and heats the water at the same time. You would need a much larger generator if you have a 1200 w element and need 480 w to charge batteries. On shore power, we never get cold water, even if 4 people shower one after the other.
Craig
"Shirley Valentine"
Gold Coast
AUSTRALIA